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Shirleyfest 2026 Epilogue: Part I: Ljubljana

I decide to try something different this year. Following Shirleyfest Antwerp, instead of coming straight home, I spend the next nearly three weeks in three other cities—Ljubljana, Valencia, and Lisbon. Ljubljana and Valencia I consider reconnaissance missions. Lisbon I consider what it feels like to return to a prior Shirleyfest city.

Ljubljana

I’ve been thinking about Ljubljana for quite a while. The few people I know who have ventured there, rave about Ljubljana and about Slovenia in general.

It is a bit of an effort to get there from Antwerp, but I get excited as I fly over the mountains guarding Ljubljana.

The good news is that when I land, my friends from Shirleyfest Vienna, Petra and Arno, pick me up at the airport.

It is the first time that my Shirleyfest visitors have arrived before I do! They decided it was only a 4 hour drive from Vienna and since they had never been to Ljubljana and we really enjoy each others company, they would make the drive.

They drop me off at my Hotel April 1550.

We agree to meet shortly to walk around the town before dinner. The hotel owner Natasa welcomes me warmly and takes my bag to my suite. After all the stairs in Antwerp, it is funny that I booked a boutique historic hotel with no elevator. I can’t believe how beautiful this hotel is and since I reserved the Treetop Suite, I have this little apartment on the top floor with a balcony truly in the treetops.

There are only 8 rooms in this hotel. If you decide to come to Ljublijana, I can’t imagine you staying anywhere else.

I quickly unpack and the three of us start walking on this gorgeous blue sky day. Ljubljana is right at the center of Slovenia. The city crouches within the Ljubljana basin and is guarded by mountains to the west, as well as to the east. The Ljubljana river flows through the city beneath scenic spans like the Cobbler’s Bridge, the Dragon Bridge and the Triple bridge.

The river, with those iconic bridges, along with the rose pink Francesca Church, make the city center one of the most picturesque I have ever encountered.

The Old Town spreads along the eastern bank of the river with Ljubljana Castle watching from above.

The town is a virtual jewel box. There is not a shred of litter anywhere. The historic Old Town bans private cars, creating a large, people-friendly zone. Over 75% of the city area is green space, featuring parks like Tivoli and thousands of planted trees. It is a pioneer in urban zero-waste management and clean, public drinking water fountains across the city. But the main thing is: It is gorgeous!

Our dinner tonight is at Birdie. We walk there through the lovely evening air.

There are no menus and the food just starts coming from the kitchen.

I lost count after 10 dishes, yet we still managed to have hazelnut mousse for dessert.

Also, Slovenia is known for its wines and we go with the waiter’s suggestion of Dolfa Reserve Merlot from Gorișka Brda. Excellent!

We get an uber back as it is quite late and very dark.

My hotel serves a breakfast each morning that is nothing short of amazing. All the food is locally sourced and the chef bakes something special each day. Today it is Buhtelj.

We all meet for an excellent walking tour of the town. We see City Hall where Zoran Jankovic has been mayor for 20 years. He is running for his 6th term at the age of 73. The election is in two weeks.

We see the Butcher’s Bridge near the Open Air Market where lovers attach locks and throw the keys in the Ljubljana River.

We continue to walk and see all of the highlights of this amazing city. Afterwards we have a late lunch outside the city center at Restaurant 5-6kg. The name of the restaurant is the weight of a small piglet.

We follow lunch with a coffee at Cafe Spiça, a local spot that friends from home, Tom and John, told me about. It is situated where the river divides and the cafe is filled with locals enjoy the beautiful weather.

Arno and Petra must leave for Vienna late afternoon. I walk over to Ljubljana’s answer to Christiania in Copenhagen. It’s called Metalkova. It is interesting, but not nearly as exotic as Copenhagen.

Speaking of exotic, as I walk back to the hotel I pass the Cyanometer. Cyanometers are machines that measure the blueness of the sky, which determines the air quality. The device captures images of the sky and compares them with a color wheel and the machine itself changes color to match the sky. Ljubljana scores very high on the blueness scale. I’ve never seen one in another city but I’m not surprised that a city that rates so highly would erect such a beautiful one.

I attend mass tonight at St. James near my hotel. When I enter I see an enormous video screen at the alter and wondered what in the world that will be used for. I soon find out. During the homily, the priest illustrates his points with religious art that shows on the big screen. That was a first for me.

For food tonight I decide to go with Balkan food at Sarajevo 84. The restaurant’s name refers to the 1984 Winter Olympics held in Sarajevo just 7 years before war broke out. It serves Balkan specialities. You sit in the basement in a very authentic tavern style room. If you like meat rolls and sausages and bread—this is your place.

I walk back late at night so happy to be here.

This morning we have another delicious breakfast, with a freshly made cake.

Afterwards, I do another interesting stroll around town. First I want to see how the fall colors are coming on the St James Bridge.

Then I check out one of the prettiest streets in town called Krizevniska Ulica.

Then I go to Ključavničarska Ulica, a narrow passageway linking the street running along the river to a shopping street. Its name translates as ‘Locksmith Street’ and there’s a symbol of a key as you go into it.

The passageway has a gully running down the middle of it, but it’s not for drainage. It’s full of 700 unusual bronze faces. They are crying, screaming, and laughing. Very creepy.

Next I walk up to the castle. I am glad I did it because the views of the town are wonderful. I don’t stay long and I can quickly walk down to the Old Town.

Dinner tonight is at Spaça right around the corner from the hotel. The waiters Filip and Vojo take me under their wings and guide me through a delicious dinner.

They decide I need to try after dinner digestives. Filip calls them “baby”, “mamma” and “papa”. I like “baby” best ( but I drink them all).

The next morning, I go first to the Museum of Modern Art. It has a special exhibition of Gregor Perušek, a facinating Slovenian-American. It ties in with my visit to the Red Star Line Museum in Antwerp, as that is how Mr. Perušek immigrated to the US.

Right next to the museum is the American Embassy, which is guarded by the Slovenian police for some reason.

Afterwards I decide to go for a personal wine tasting. Slovenia specializes in orange wines and I am very interested to find one I like. I sit at the bar of Movia winery with Ela (part of the family that owns Movia) and she explains about their vineyards and their wines.

I find several I like!

Tonight is dinner at Campra. Natasa got me a reservation at this hard to get into restaurant. Its speciality is grilled meats. I was delighted. The starter is delicious and the waiter chooses a nice local wine.

The main was grilled pork neck.

I decided to leave without dessert because I want to hit up the amazing gelato place in town called Cacao.

I’m flying off to Valencia tomorrow. Everyone I meet in Ljubljana loves living there. Eduction is free and I talked to several university students who were so happy to be doing their studies there. The vibe is peaceful, calm and beautiful. It is not a bustling go-go city. I enjoyed the atmosphere after coming from a month in a larger city. I would love to see the rest of Slovenia on another trip.

Stay tuned for Epilogue Part II====Valencia!

Planning a Solo Adventure

Traveling alone has a lot of perks, from meeting new people to changing your mind on a whim.

I just completed a week long workshop at Rancho la Puerta called Transitions, Transformations and Travel. All the sessions were well attended and enjoyable. I promised the attendees I would post on my site a brief article I wrote for Via magazine on traveling solo. Enjoy!

By Shirley Buccieri 

Would you like to go on a trip with someone you know intimately, do exactly what you want to do, whenever you want to do it, and never once have to share your dessert?   Then get on board with one of the hottest trends in  the travel industry–Traveling Solo.  The changing demographics of American households, the frustration of trying to mesh friends and partners’ work schedules and interests, and even the popularity of the book and movie Eat, Pray Love mean more and more people are hitting the road alone. For many people, traveling solo is an intriguing concept, but for some, that fascination is mixed with fear. So what are the ways to tip that scale in your favor and acquire the skills of successful solo travelers?

Optimizing your solo travels means mastering three basic concepts: (1) the practical mechanics of  what to do when “It’s all on you”, (2) dealing with the number one concern of solo travelers–loneliness, and  (3) embracing the experience to get the most out of being on a trip with yourself.

Practical Mechanics

Do your homework.  You won’t have a navigator to say get off at this exit or a friend to watch your luggage while you roam about checking out the bus vs. taxi option at the airport.  Advanced planning before you leave home is paramount.  Whether you are heading up to wine country or flying to Berlin, know your route, transportation options and  the general lay of the land before you leave home. Print out maps of things you want to do or put those destinations into your mobile phone or GPS.  Make at least your first night’s hotel reservation ahead of time and know how you are getting there when you arrive. 

Be Safe. Trust your gut. Going solo means the fun of talking to new people alone and accepting impromptu invitations.  But if something doesn’t seem right, trust your intuition and know that it is best to pass on that conversation or opportunity and exit.  Also, dressing and behaving in the manner of the place you are visiting goes a long way towards not labeling you as an outsider and that is good for both safety and enjoying your visit. Open your eyes and take your cues from those around you. 

Don’t be Lonely

Put lines in the water.  One of the things most solo travelers worry about is being lonely, or if not lonely, not having someone to share the wonderful food, art, or performance they are experiencing. This is where having put lines in the water ahead of time will really pay off. Having connections at your destination is a matter of asking people at home to E-connect you with locals they know via email before you leave home. Ask your friends, your doctor, your colleagues–everyone. A certain percentage of these “lines” will pay off. You can follow up when you arrive and set in place at intervals that suit you, dinners, lunches, coffees or drinks.  The nice thing is–one connection leads to another connection and you can pepper your aloneness with as much local companionship as you want to add to your vacation.  

Meet people on your terms.  A solo trip has room for as much or as little interaction as you want. While enjoying the freedom and flexibility of a solo outing, it is actually easier to meet people when you are a solo traveler.  Become a regular at a local coffee house and not only get great local tips, the aura of a regular means you will meet other locals as well. Choose places that have communal tables.   A person alone is much more approachable than a group, or even a couple,  so don’t be surprised if people strike up a conversation with you. Enjoy it! Need a loneliness fix? Get the benefits of a group without being one by signing up for a local walking tour of something that interest you at your destination.  Ask people to take your picture or offer to take theirs.

Embrace the Experience

Go for it.  Now that you have bravely taken your trip, get the most out of it. Put aside your electronic devices and look around. Walk as much as possible or take public transportation. Keep a journal both as a silent companion, but also to note how this experience is changing you. Write down the lessons you are learning from this trip. Contemplation and personal growth come naturally on a solo trip. When traveling with someone, sometimes we temper our curiosity to fit another person’s expectations–solo travel allows uninhibited observation of others and unbridled curiosity.

Mistakes-who cares!  One of the nicest things about solo travel is you learn to cope with your own mistakes and laugh. Got on the wrong train? No one to blame, so you shrug and get off at the next stop and make an adventure of a place you didn’t intend to see. 

No one else to please, so please yourself. You want to linger in the cafe for an hour?  Do it. This museum is boring? Leave. Don’t rush through your trip. Make conscious choices and please yourself. Get lost on purpose. Solo travel lets you be spontaneous and design your own adventure without compromise or negotiation. 

Have themes.  As you get the hang of solo travel, it is fun to have recurrent themes that you explore. Maybe you visit every place with an eye towards “What is the coffee culture?” Or maybe in each location you look at the dynamics of people and their pets? Or maybe you just want to sip an Old Fashion in every place you visit and compare and contrast that simple pleasure.  Go ahead–it’s your trip!

“To awaken quite alone in a strange town is one of the pleasantest sensations in the world”–Freya Stark

This article first appeared in Via Magazine. 

Kicking off 2018 with a walk down Pacific Avenue….or tossing the trees, why the Gettys are rich and a Purdue wreath.

A change for 2018. I’ll be posting even when I’m not on a Shirleyfest. No better time to start than January 2nd. A morning walk down my street yielded a strange site—Christmas trees on every corner tossed out for pick up.

On some corners, beautiful wreaths accompanied the tossed trees. This one was so pretty I was tempted to rescue it.

I reluctantly left the wreath and walked on. Trees everywhere, solo trees, and piles and piles of trees.

If Pacific Avenue was this tree-laden, I decided to turn the corner and check out the tree tossing on Broadway–Billionaire’s Row. I thought they must have even more elaborate tree trash. First, with an apology to my friends shivering on the east coast, I admire the view on this January day from the top of the Lyon steps.

What a surprise when I stop in front of the Getty mansion and see this tree they had tossed.

Seriously—-now I know why the Gettys are so rich. They used up ever ounce of this tree and got their moneys worth before tossing it. Walking on I spy an unusual wreath on the door of a house nearby.

It looks like some kind of football wreath. On closer inspection I see it is a PURDUE football wreath. As a Purdue alum who only days before witnessed Purdue beat Arizona in the Foster Farms bowl, I am delighted. I complete my loop and am relieved to see that not everybody tossed out their Christmas decorations when they tore off their calendar page.